Yes it is not good to compare your grow with others.

We all have different environments watering techniques, etc. And we all get different outcomes. And all of it fire.😄

I think you're looking for a guide or mile marker to look at to compare your grow to. Find a diary on the one of the diary sites that have someone's diary of the plant you're growing. That way you'll be comparing the same thing.

My 10 day Durban looks way different than a Glookie 

So it looks good, stay on track avoid the tendency to over love it, lookin in while it's sleeping those sort of things. And good luck.